new paradigm      ///////////    current  paradigm

• savor                                                                     judge
• content                                                                 desire
• accept                                                                   defend/want
• tao                                                                          ego
• give                                                                         take
• presence (attention)                                          past and future (attention)
• unconditional love                                             conditional love
• guided                                                                   seeking
• alert                                                                    distracted
• relaxed                                                                  urgent
• allow                                                                     force
• serenity                                                                 chaos
• congruent                                                              scattered